I am gonna start with step one ladies.
1. Never let them think there in charge. If you let them think there in charge they will never clean again.
2. Always, remain calm when you get the angriest. This keeps them on there toes and they don't know what to expect.
3. From the gate make sure your man is willing to compromise. If there is no give a little to get a little your doomed.
4. Never give them everything they want. Never... If you do you get a spoiled lazy man.
5. If they don't have good work ethic run for the hills. If they can't hold a job, fill out there own resume or set there own alarm. Your not getting involved with a man your getting involved with a 30 yr old plus with the brain of a 12 year old.
6. Always hide a little money on the side. Women who have children always need to prepare for the " if anything ever happens plan". Men don't understand that we need to think ahead to feel secure. Example: kids need new clothes, or new tires for car, or your mom's bday.So, let your man think your broke. If he knows you make more or have more .." most men" will not pitch in for anything.
7. If he tells you he wants to cheat or leave you PLEASE ..please let leave. There is no reason for you beg to keep them. If you give up that control then they will think they can do what ever they want. Let them know your secure and can make it fine on your own. Keeping your self confidence makes you happier in the long run.
8. If they don't clean try asking for one thing at a time. If you remind them we are naggin. It's kinda like a mind game. They need to think it was there idea. So sadly you got drop like 100 hints to get it done. But at least you get them in the routine.
9. Always praise them for their good deeds. Yes, positive reinforcement for children and men work the same ladies. If they think they did good their likely to try it again to show off.
10. And last but not least. If you feed them good ..there is a good chance they may be happy but they get lazy. If you want help around the house ask them around dinner time. Use the excuse" I can stop making dinner if you can't help" lol It works for me.
